Some days you're hollow. Your bits are gone, you aren't getting them back, and you're at wits end.
The weight of the missing pulls down with overwhelming force and fractures what has been holding you together.
The inexcusable hole screams vacancy and masks any distractions with grief and misery. Incapability sinks in.
Alone, the distance of across state miles seem as far away as the heavens. The lost feet of home wandering far and wide can't be seen or heard. The parts of the heart you once owned are now divided and possessed by those people called home, helping their blood to pump, keeping their feet moving. On with life. Away from you.
The shear joy of three summers spent in His Light are unfortunately only balanced out with the lifelong depression you gain. The wound feels always fresh, even as it begins and continues to heal.
The gouge you obtained instead of a heart is healed over with scarring material. Wanderers don't understand the missing part. And there is no way to describe the reason you gave 30 or so people pieces of your self and let them roam free, when you yourself, completely alone, can't understand.
Thursday, December 11, 2014
Sunday, November 16, 2014
Awake My Soul
"Lend me your eyes and I can change what you see"
Mumford and Sons
I've always searched for that someone who loves Jesus more than they love me.
Then I met him.
The summer blew in like a breeze blowing across the mist covered lake at sunrise. It disappeared as fast as the sun rising above the pines. Gone.
But somewhere in between, I fell in love. With camp, with the people, and with my best friend.
He had the same joy for camp as me. A love for children. Most importantly, the shear joy for our Lord and Savior was completely mutual.
He showed my his home and helped make it mine. He awoken my soul to new beginnings and a sincere friendship. He walked in His light everyday. He was sincere, he was genuine, and he was loving. He quickly became my very best friend.
Days turned to weeks, weeks into months, and finally, the last days were upon us. August. Done. Complete. Feeling as empty as fallen leaves. In the same respects, as the tired feet tread over those leaves, I was crushed.
He helped fulfill my Omega purpose.
He listened for the pure form of listening, not to regurgitate an answer and personal thoughts.
He gave me advice worth giving.
He cared and taught me to be free.
With his entire soul he cared. When I wasn't willing to let his words enter my ears, he ripped himself open and poured love into me. He defended me in all situations, laughed with me at the dumbest things, he showered me with endless energy on the dreariest of days, and not only did he keep me company when I felt small under the expanse of the stars but he also helped me acknowledge their endless presence. Daily, he suffocated me with his love. Above all, with every breath he took and every beat of his heart, he showed me how to walk in the light of Jesus.
If only I could show him the same amounts of love he continues to show me. For giving me a home, for understanding me in my entirety, for his lack of judgement, for knowing all my faults and still loving me unconditionally. I could spend every day trying to complete the task of repaying that debt and never near what I owe him. I will forever be in debt to him for giving me a summer I wouldn't have ever had without him.
Monday, September 22, 2014
22750
There are a few moments I will never forget.
The day my brother was born.
The day we rode in a buggy behind a bike to the beach.
The last day of senior year.
The day I started college.
The day I got a call to Luther.
The day I drove to Omega.
The emotions ran high. Fear. Shock. Grief. Completely overwhelmed.
I have never been so filled with grief. The grief of a summer spent out of WI and the loss of a 2014 Luther staff that I wasn't invited to. I cried. I paused and stared in wonder at the place that would destroy me from the inside out. I looked up at the hill and thought the next three months of my life were completely over. Little did I know that the only thing it would be destroying, was the completely wrong beliefs I had.
This was a place that encouraged belonging. It flourished with tears. Tears of joy, sorrow and understanding. For one summer, our home was found in the frayed edges of handed down couches pushed in a circle. It was discovered in a mud filled field infested with screaming children. It was seen in the flames of a BZ campfire as our sunglasses reflected the watercolors of a sunset painted just for us. The sense of home surrounded us in the never leaving bug spray and sunscreen smell. But most importantly home could be found in the faces of all those who walked our paths and shared His word, who listened to our sadness and gave us immeasurable joy. Wherever these people go, they carry with them parts of the home we shared.
The people I met and the place I was able to call home for one summer can never be replicated. As we travel and grow, I feel a sense of distance. My home wasn't just left behind, but was dispersed. As people left, small parts of my home went with them.
My home travels far and wide. Parts of it can be found in the heart of a woman who bleeds pride for Texas. Some belongs to a boy who loves spoons, cats and eating freezies in numerous forms and another who can leave me with the best advice and a smile. Still more was given to a girl who's smile is the most genuine I know. Parts of home left every Friday, and as quickly as the tears dried, new pieces of the puzzle called home arrived on Sundays.
This summer gave a new meaning to the simple word home. Home is not just a place, and it's not just things. My home is spewed further than the eye could ever see, placed in beating hearts of able bodies. All together, on fire for Him.
The day my brother was born.
The day we rode in a buggy behind a bike to the beach.
The last day of senior year.
The day I started college.
The day I got a call to Luther.
The day I drove to Omega.
The emotions ran high. Fear. Shock. Grief. Completely overwhelmed.
I have never been so filled with grief. The grief of a summer spent out of WI and the loss of a 2014 Luther staff that I wasn't invited to. I cried. I paused and stared in wonder at the place that would destroy me from the inside out. I looked up at the hill and thought the next three months of my life were completely over. Little did I know that the only thing it would be destroying, was the completely wrong beliefs I had.
This was a place that encouraged belonging. It flourished with tears. Tears of joy, sorrow and understanding. For one summer, our home was found in the frayed edges of handed down couches pushed in a circle. It was discovered in a mud filled field infested with screaming children. It was seen in the flames of a BZ campfire as our sunglasses reflected the watercolors of a sunset painted just for us. The sense of home surrounded us in the never leaving bug spray and sunscreen smell. But most importantly home could be found in the faces of all those who walked our paths and shared His word, who listened to our sadness and gave us immeasurable joy. Wherever these people go, they carry with them parts of the home we shared.
The people I met and the place I was able to call home for one summer can never be replicated. As we travel and grow, I feel a sense of distance. My home wasn't just left behind, but was dispersed. As people left, small parts of my home went with them.
My home travels far and wide. Parts of it can be found in the heart of a woman who bleeds pride for Texas. Some belongs to a boy who loves spoons, cats and eating freezies in numerous forms and another who can leave me with the best advice and a smile. Still more was given to a girl who's smile is the most genuine I know. Parts of home left every Friday, and as quickly as the tears dried, new pieces of the puzzle called home arrived on Sundays.
This summer gave a new meaning to the simple word home. Home is not just a place, and it's not just things. My home is spewed further than the eye could ever see, placed in beating hearts of able bodies. All together, on fire for Him.
Saturday, April 5, 2014
Friday, April 4, 2014
Unknowingly Blessed
I first noticed her as the girl with angelic hair.
The way it curled, glowed, and framed her face.
Beauty.
She looked at me with a gaze full of peace,
Silently contemplating a verbal exchange.
And then it came…
"Hi."
One small word.
Mind contemplating neurons firing, lips moving, air
vibrating, ears retrieving, message delivering, understood.
Hi.
That word changed it all.
Hours of sleep were lost, as precious hours of friendship
were gained.
The night was filled with stories shared and laughter that
bound us.
The ability to stay in her presence and float on her words,
As our stranger status almost immediately turned into
friends.
With the following years behind us,
We were given the rare opportunity to be much more.
With deep anticipation and short calls we looked forward to
summer.
Months turned to weeks, weeks into days, and then there we
were.
Over the bridge, into the lot, I saw her come.
And again,
'Hi."
This simple word came to mean more than ever spoken between
us before.
The simple act of hi would never again mean the same.
We were bound together in His great love,
Sharing unbelievable highs and indescribable lows.
We had the rare ability to be completely free for a summer.
No ties.
Free to dance, laugh, sing, stargaze, feel the sun and fully
acknowledge its presence.
We were free to cry without judgment.
Completely. Free.
We were two hearts made of a similar mold, brought together
for a summer.
There could have never been enough days for me to completely
understand the gift He gave me by sending her to camp.
Her presence fills me with joy, her laughter is music to my
ears. She makes me completely comforted and content while filling my life with
sincere humor.
I could have never done it without her.
While she was there for campers and Him,
Her biggest impact was the one she left with me.
She branded me with friendship and scarred me with love.
Monday, March 24, 2014
The absence of
Explaining the pure joy of camp and the utter hollowness of leaving is nearly impossible; but I tried.
Camp
Joy. Love. Fear. Sadness. Anger. Happiness. Tears. Peace. Completely Content.
Almost every emotion was felt in such a degree I have never
had the ability to feel anywhere else on earth. So close to heaven. If you were
to lay your head among the grass and push your ear hard enough, I still believe
that you can hear the earth's heartbeat. It's a place we dance with angels
daily. We laughed together, we shared terrifying stories of villages at night,
and cried together. Daily, we had the rare opportunity to simply breathe
together. In and out. Out and in. We swam under the treacherous sun, as beads
of water flowed from our lake stained skin. We comforted campers at night, and
each other as the summer days grew thin. We counted until we couldn't count any
more. Stars, weeks, memories, hours, and
campers. Endlessly we counted campers, until we knew the number sixteen in all
of its forms and clumps. 8 and 8. 4 and 4 and 4 and 4. 2 and 2 and 2 and 2 and
2 and 2 and 2 and 2. We bound them together as roommates. We bound them
together as friends. We bound them any way we could to help us count. Daily we
grew, we grew in Him, and grew in ourselves. The beat of camp rang through
everything we did. It's warmth could be seen on our faces, and it's songs rang
through our hearts and were lifted in voice. Our feet trod miles and miles upon
the dirt we were simply lucky enough to call home for a mere summer. A mere
summer that offered only a keyhole view of everlasting life.
Smells. Nothing compares to the smell of the lake filled
air, perfectly combined with sunscreen applications, and the occasional wafting
of lunch cooking in mid morning. The unavoidable presence of the everlasting campfire smoke. The smell of green will forever be imprinted
in the front of my brain. I would know that smell anywhere, ferns, grass,
mildew hair, pasta salad, the carpet of the RC, the earth ball, the village
mattresses, the athletic field prota potty, army blankets, sour skittles,
towels, the second pine branch up on the right of the panty tree. Green green
green. We were floating, stuck in a completely, unbelievable, indescribable
high.
Days were filled barely awake, lifting our stuck together
eyelids to take in the new day, too tired to function but waiting for campers
to sleep so we could stay up and talk. We wandered, we waded, we paddled, we
yelled, we screamed, we swam. We strategically voiced our love for ice cream
with great hopes of a free treat at canteen on hot days, and knew how to pick
the perfect flannel on cold ones. We walked and talked and stargazed and
laughed. Sunlight and laughter filled our days. Stars and pure joy filled the
nights. On days we were lucky enough, we experienced just enough emotion to
laugh, cry, and love. Endless feeling
days flew by as fast as a flying arrow. Gone. Gone. Gone. Till one more left.
No one can prepare you for the day you must return to utter
reality. It's gone. Summer is soaked up like a dry sponge. The nudging fall air
blows away those around you. You're summer family is swallowed by an
approaching season. I've seen it disappear in the blurr of a robin's egg blue
v-neck in the front of a Chevy Malibu, in the back of a van pulled into the
courtyard. It's been carried off in boxes and guitar cases. It disappeared in
duffels and bins. Its holes are seen in empty crates and empty hooks. Rooms and
refrigerators scream vacancy. It makes you question whether or not movement is
a certainty. Are we all just pieced together as fragments of seconds? Are we
really moving on, or just simple film strips pieced together, unable to be cut apart?
We know for certain that it can't be a possibility for us to move on
voluntarily. So are we really moving in time at all? Does life still exist
beyond this? It makes you question whether
it was all a dream. And as your tires cross the pavement, and hit
the road just off the bridge, the tears falling are no longer summer tears.
They are now possessions of the fall. The emotions just aren't as deep in reality.
You're alone. No one can prepare you for the utter feeling of emptiness. Never
would I have guessed that the simple act of breathing alone, without the
conjoined breathes of 30 others, can make you feel ultimately hollow. The unmistakable absence of fellow lungs supporting life sustaining breaths simply
can't be felt until you experience their vacancy. Somehow, the state of their
absence is heavier than their conjoined presence. It's the one thing in my life
that I have ever experience as being heavier when nonexistent at all than the
weight when they're all as one. Coincidentally, it's the heaviest thing I've
had yet to bare. And surprisingly, your
heart continues to beat. And beyond all recollection of belief, your lungs can
still fill themselves with a completely empty air. Alone.
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